(02-15-2020 10:58 AM)stinkfist Wrote: JR, how I love when thou expounds...
#cherioFromTheField
Well that one was directed at a lifelong buddy of mine who is killing himself so that his daughter stays in that bubble perpetually. His son is doing fine and will be fine. That kid worked his way through things so that he could escape the bubble he was being placed in. He passed his CPA exam first time out and is a chip off the old block who has forgotten how important his path was and is.
He and his wife are under the delusion that by literally providing everything for their daughter that she will somehow marry well. The don't grasp what a horrid little termagant they are turning here into, but even her extended family (think first cousins) despise her very presence and of course the icon she seeks to become is Taylor Swift, an equally vacuous and vapid individual.
I'm just sick of watching my friend and his wife drop social engagements when their princess calls her serf parents for services needed. I never would have thought that this hard working son of a farmer would do this. In all other things he's a helluva a solid man. I chalk it up however to their societal friends in the large city in which they live.
I live as you know in college town for the state land grant school and agriculture and vet medicine are our benchmarks along with engineering. When the kids pouring into school have tastes that make the realtors here build lavish monstrosities and their parents are stupid enough to create the demand, something has gone horribly wrong with our world. Nobody going to a practical school should live so impractically and at such needless expense as to break their parents.
I was very aware of what my parents sacrificed to provide and consequently held multiple jobs to mitigate their strain especially since I was the oldest and it was going to be rinse wash and recycle for the next two of my siblings.
My college days were 3 guys living in a two room efficiency with a cot and bunkbed and sleeping in our cars when one of us had a date over.
This little princess has moved three times in 3 years and each time to the most expensive new dorm being opened, first on campus and then off. Each time her dad has had to come and move not only her, but her precious little friends whose parents probably see themselves as to wealthy to handle the labor.
This is what is wrong Stink. And this kid is going to be a hardcore lefty because she doesn't think, she responds to be noticed and approved and believes the rest of us to be beneath her magnificence.