(02-16-2016 03:22 PM)georgia_tech_swagger Wrote: I learned many years ago there is no fully right answer. If you remove someone quietly you'll stoke conspiracy theorists. If you announce publicly people will that's a rude of handling it. If you lay down the law and call it like you see it you're mean. If you handle them with kid gloves you're blowing smoke up their *** and hiding the truth. There's tens of thousands of people on this site. The sheer number of people assures you'll never get full satisfaction. I choose the path of least resistance ... PM notification, then public announce, and lots of humor. It seems to ruffle the fewest feathers in my experience. *shrug*
Time I weigh in.
GTS, wouldn't the decent thing to have done would have been to write me first and at least ask my opinion on how I thought the announcement should be handled? Since I once asked you to remove me as a mod (after the first dust-up on the mod forum), I could have easily used that as an honest explanation for my loss of mod duties.
Instead, I get humiliated in public for what I saw as merely expressing my views openly and clearly to my fellow mods.....in essence, trying to do what you say you wish to do now, push for a more cohesive mod unit, one that follows the rules as I understood them, and a unit that works together.
When I was first elected to the mod staff, Burn The Horse, our boss, gave me some very specific instructions to follow:
1) Conference FIRST. Put aside your team loyalties. Don't let fellow fanbase members divide the mod group.
2) Always back your mod brothers even if you disagree with them. Maintain a united front, never disagree with a fellow mod on the open forum. AND WHEN YOU SEE A FELLOW MOD HAVING TROUBLE, COME TO HIS AID IMMEDIATELY.
3) It's okay to be arrogant about being a mod, as long as you're not a jerk. Don't take mess from anyone, espeically from those who come into our community to stir up trouble.
I would ask my fellow Belt members, was there another poster here who defended the SunBelt as vehemently as I against those arrogant, elitists from across the street? Yeah, I admit that LaTech posters are like catnip to me, but did I ever lord my mod position over any of them, threaten them, forum ban any of them? I let them have their say, to a point. And when one of them reached that point, I asked my fellow mods to step in and help me, as I was instructed to do. In essence I was told to take a long walk off a short plank.
I'm not going to go into all the gory details here, but suffice it to say that I felt at times I was the only one following those rules from BTH. And never one to be a shrinking violet, I told my fellow mod members how I felt. It was maddening to me then, and still is today. And I believe it cost me my mod position.
Heck, the fact that we're here today talking about mod issues on the open forum demonstrates my point that the rules appear to be malleable.
I've interacted with a lot posters here since I joined this place. I've made a lot of friends and I'll admit, I've pissed off a poster or two with my Al Bundy-like sarcasm. But at the end of the day I believe I performed my mod duties as well as I could and was fair to virtually everyone. Yeah, I made some errors, but who hasn't?
You guys, the ones who post and contribute here every single day can be the final judge of my contributions to this forum. I suspect with this post I'll receive the death penalty. Anyone have a cigarette?