How old are you, anyway?

There are 3 billion females on the planet. She is only one of them. Find another one.

Big Pimpin Deac Wrote:There are 3 billion females on the planet. She is only one of them. Find another one.

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BPD: Making his return to the board with such grace and subtlety.

Welcome back, man!

-JD

Big Pimpin Deac Wrote:There are 3 billion females on the planet. She is only one of them. Find another one.

i've seen a ghost!

Long distance relationships = headache :bang:

My girl and I went through it, and trust me, it sucks. Everytime I would go to visit her I was always really jealous around any guy that she waved to in the dorm hallway. You know....thinking...who is that dude? Does she like him? Did they hook up? It was miserable. I was never jealous like that with any other of my girlfriends.

But on the upside, after I visited one weekend, she called me on Monday and said she couldn't deal with it anymore and had quit school. She wanted me to come and pick her up and help her move back. That was 2 years ago....we're getting married on June 12th.

If she's really "the one" it will all work out in the end. Just give her some space and see if she comes around or not. If not, don't sweat it, things happen for a reason.

What's up boys?! Hope all is well. Feels good to be back! :wave:

Lots of good advice from Torch, JD & NatureBoy. But for once, I'm not going to go with the soft psychological approach. BPD is right on the money on this one:

Quote:There are 3 billion females on the planet. She is only one of them. Find another one.

You're much too young, LL, to concentrate on one girl who you admit is young, and who does not seem particularly interested at this time. Give her time, give her space, but in the meantime, use this opportunity to meet other girls. You may find the one who is meant for you is still out there. And if this out-of-town girl is the one for you, then you'll find your way back to each other in the future when you're both ready to give a relationship a try.

Lucy Wrote:Lots of good advice from Torch, JD & NatureBoy. But for once, I'm not going to go with the soft psychological approach. BPD is right on the money on this one:

Quote:There are 3 billion females on the planet. She is only one of them. Find another one.

You're much too young, LL, to concentrate on one girl who you admit is young, and who does not seem particularly interested at this time. Give her time, give her space, but in the meantime, use this opportunity to meet other girls. You may find the one who is meant for you is still out there. And if this out-of-town girl is the one for you, then you'll find your way back to each other in the future when you're both ready to give a relationship a try.

my dad was married with two kids at my age now. all the people I hangout with either is married or in a serious relationship.

I have known this girl for years. she moves around alot ("father" a marine), she told me that this was the first time they would ever miss anyone after movement.

I did it again. I waited too long to make my move and a weathly custumer bought her away and took her o so very far away. even after I promised myself I wouldnt wait too long. :bang:

I found out why she aint been online as much anymore-she hasta get up at 7 AM every morning and aint used to that after having no job since October

I talked to her bro tonight. maybe I was just over reacting. but still dont know, but that explains the lack of IMing

JD Heel Wrote:BPD: Making his return to the board with such grace and subtlety.

Welcome back, man!

-JD

Where was Big Pimpin Deac been?

LL, it could ALWAYS be worse. This could have happened to you in Fairbanks. At least you're near civilization. Move on. You are in the land of milk and honey. I'm in the land of drunken Eskimos and, well, drunken Eskimos.

Im so sorry LL, I am only in high school so I probaly do not know what your going through. But I have been depressed before. Just dont let it break you. I just got over my depressino maybe a half a year ago. However, mine wasnt related to a girl. My parents were always pressuring me to do well in school and wouldnt get off my back. I finally cracked and started taking 10-12 advils a night. I even tried to kill myself. All I am saying is, dont let one girl affect the rest of your life. Sometimes reality is harsh. It looks like she has pushed you behind her. My advice is to do the same. It will reck your life if you dont.

I dont think she found someone else. I was talkin to her bro and grandma, and dont get the feeling anymore. she has just been swamped with a new job and stuff. but she IS drifting away. so I aint hurt anymore-just depressed.